UPDATE: Real Housewives of OC – The Tamra and Simon Texting War!
Posted by ImaJustSaying on April 18, 2011
Well well well. We saw in this week’s episode, Tamra complaining to Vicky that Simon is harrassing her via texts while she was in spain. We do learn that Tamra never told Simon she was leaving the country for 10 days and Tamra says she left the kids with her mother the entire time and gave her mother power of attorney in case of an emergency.
First of all, Tamra is completely wrong in doing this. In case of an emergency, Simon should be the person to address emergency issues since he is the childrens father. I do not see any reason for Tamra to do this since Simon no longer makes decisions for her and this was truly irresponsible.
I found this little diddy at housewivesblog.tv and she had noticed Simon posting something on his facebook a week ago speaking out about this particular issue and is refuting Tamra’s claims of harrassment.
I have always tried to be above all the Drama and lies this and last season. This is the one rare time that I have commented about her or the show. That being said; I just saw a commercial for next week’s episode of RHOC. My soon to be ex tells Vicki I was harassing her by text while she was in Spain. So I decided to look back at the texts I sent her when I found out she was in Spain, and my kids were being watch by 4 different people, including a minor. Maybe it’s me, but after reading it and I don’t see the harassment.Do you?
Tamra: I understand you picked up the kids? Next time ask, plz. I have Maddie coming today at 9:30
Simon: Next time tell me you are going out of the country for 5 days and leaving my kids with 4 different people especially a minor. And especially me their father offering to take them. U should have switched weekends. That would have been the best thing for the kids.
Tamra: Stop your games plzzzzzzz!!!! Read my email. If you were normal we would not have issues! I have Maddie coming at 9:30 to 1:00. Do u need her? FYI I don’t have to tell you were I am going unless I’m taking the kids!!!!I had my days covered! U want them at night then u are more than welcome to take them.
Simon: Doesn’t matter. You are irresponsible not working with me. if you cared about the kids. U would have made arrangements with me to switch. Even though I had plans I would have change them not to have my kids away from either of their parents for 5 days. You never gave me a chance. Why?
Tamra: Cuz your a pain in the ass to deal with! Grow up! Leave me alone. The kids are taking care of. Stop hurting them with your games. Do I need to cancle(sic) Maddie????? I’m filming so unless u want them part of the show I suggest u leave me alone
Simon: Whatever Tammy. The kids are what is important to me. You know That and so do they. Do y thing I would have a Problem if you asked to switch weekends and days while u were traveling??? I don’t understand why u would go to so much trouble not to just do that. ???
Tamra: Look with in! U harrasse(sic) me every time I ask for help. I don’t need or want your help. Everything comes with conditions with you. I feel bad for you, I worry about you. It is your right to pick them up if you chose I understand that and would never keep them from you. If you don’t answer me about Maddie I will call and cancle(sic) her.
Simon: I have already handled Maddie and Andrea. What do thing I’m irresponsible. Ps get off your bo((sic) box about worrying about me. I’m still a great dad. And that is my Priority. Stop talking shit about me to people to draw attention from you. It’s not right. Especially after u did that on national TV. I think I deserve better than that from you. I’ve been nothing but nice to u considering what u have done.
Tamra: Ya okay …. whatever u think! Start worrying about the kids and stop worrying about me.
Simon: Who’s worrying about you????
Simon: I don’t care about you anymore except when talk shit about me or fu it the kids. Get over it. I’m sorry that it bothers you. But you only have yourself to blame.
Tamra: I don’t talk about u ever! I never fuck my kids.
Simon: You did this week. Sophia was begging me Saturday to steal her from her Moms house when I was there. When they came over last night all three of them gave me the biggest longest hugs. And said they missed and loved me. Keeping them from me while you are gone. Is fucking the kids.
Simon: Do you think I would go away for a week and do that to them. No I would beg u to be with them instead of non parents. Especially now.
Tamra: Keeping them from you? Are you delusional? They were at my house on MY days not yours…God u need help
Simon: Please have Eddie read the last two texts and explain them to you
Simon: It’s like u can’t understand You read what you believe not what I’m saying
Tamra: Simon, I just read the entire history of this conversation. Your manipulation is transparent and Tamra sees right through you. The fact of that this entire conversation should be about the kids commonwealth. She can not ask you for the simplest favor (i.e. Covering her days so she can work) as such, she is making every effort to cover her days so she can work. She has never said that you cannot see your kids. Anyway, I suggest you think about the kid future mental and emotional stable. Stop making yourself a victim …. Eddie
Simon: Eddie. This is not your business I just asked u to translate.
Simon: Tammy. U both are Perfect for each other. Duh!
Tamra: Thank you that is the best compliment you have giving me, we are perfect together.
Simon: Here it is one last time.Read it slowly. Bottom line is you did not ask me to help. And you did not expect my help when I offered to watch the kids.Instand you had others watch them for 6 days while you were 7000 miles away. This is not the best thing for their safety and “mental health” And u did this knowing you were traveling out of the country. That was irresponsible for the kids. I have always helped you when it comes to the Kids schedule to accommodate your business and social schedule. So there is no excuse. Do you know how bad this looks for you. Fortunately history has shown that I don’t exploit all the shit you do. Unlike you I don’t talk shit about you in the press or on your show. Next time let me help. What’s confusing is you have always asked before. Panama, chicago, ny, Mexico etc. etc. And I help every time So why so different this Time??????
Now I don’t know if Simon could of managed to manipulate the texts and I doubt it, but this tells a very different story then the one Tamra sold us. Also we learn there were 4 babysitters and one a minor. We have already seen Tamra lie like a rug so….